150 Ways to Show Kids You Care
让孩子感受关怀的150种方法
1.Notice them.关注他们。
2.Smile a lot.多多微笑。
3.Acknowledge them.主动给他们打招呼。
4.Learn their names.记住他们的名字。
5.Seek them out.随时把目光落在他们身上。
6.Remember their birthdays.记住他们的生日。
7.Ask them about themselves.经常和他们谈心。
8.Look in their eyes when you talk to them. 看着他们的眼睛对他们说话。
9.Listen to them.耐心听他们说话。
10.Play with them.和他们一起玩。
11.Read aloud together.和他们一起大声朗读。
12.Giggle together. 和他们一起欢笑。
13.Be nice.态度和蔼。
14.Say yes a lot.多说“对”。
15.Tell them their feelings are okay.鼓励他们有自己的感情。
16.Set boundaries that keep them safe.给他们划定安全活动区域。
17.Be honest.诚恳待人。
18.Be yourself.有自己的个性。
19.Listen to their stories.听他们讲故事。
20.Hug them.不时用手揽揽他们的肩头。
21.Forget your worries sometimes and concentrate only on them.有时候要忘记你的忧虑，把精力放在他们身上。
22.Notice when they’re acting differently.注意他们的异常举动。
23.Present options when they seek your counsel.当他们请你出主意时，给他们出主意。
24.Play outside together.一起到户外去玩。
25.Surprise them.不时让他们大吃一惊。
26.Stay with them when they’re afraid.当他们感到害怕时和他们一起。
27.Invite them over for juice.请他们过来喝杯果汁。
28.Suggest better behaviors when they act out.他们犯错误时，要提醒他们表现出良好的行为举止。
29.Feed them when they’re hungry.饿了给他们吃的。
30.Delight in their discoveries.为他们的发现而高兴。
31.Share their excitement.分享他们的激动。
32.Send them a letter or postcard.寄给他们一封信或一张贺卡。
33.Follow them when they lead.他们领你去什么地方时，跟着去。
34.Notice when they’re absent.注意他们的缺席情况。
35.Call them to say hello.打电话向他们问好。
36.Hide surprises for them to find.制造惊喜让他们发现。
37.Give them space when they need it.留给他们必要的空间。
38.Contribute to their collections.为他们的收藏提供帮助。
39.Discuss their dreams and nightmares.和他们讨论梦想与噩梦。
40.Laugh at their jokes.为他们讲的笑话而发笑。
41.Be relaxed.心情放松。
42.Kneel, squat, or sit so you’re at their eye level.采取跪姿、蹲姿或坐姿和他们谈话。
43.Answer their questions.有问必答。
44.Tell them how terrific they are.告诉他们，他们是最棒的。
45.Create a tradition with them and keep it.和他们一起创造并保持一种优良传统。
46.Learn what they have to teach.给他们上讲台当小老师的机会。
47.Use your ears more than your mouth.多听少说。
48.Make yourself available.有求必应。
49.Show up at their concerts, games, and events.参加他们举办的音乐会和开展的游戏及活动。
50.Find a common interest.在兴趣爱好方面寻找和他们一致的共同点。
51.Hold hands during a walk.走路时牵着他们的手。
52.Apologize when you’ve done something wrong.错了要给他们道歉。
53.Listen to their favorite music with them.和他们一起听他们喜爱的音乐。
54.Keep the promises you make.信守承诺。
55.Wave and smile when you part.分别时向他们微笑着挥手。
56.Display their artwork in your home. 把他们的艺术作品摆放在你的家里。
57.Thank them.对他们说“谢谢”。
58.Point out what you like about them.指出你喜欢他们的地方。
59.Clip magazine pictures or articles that interest them.把他们喜欢图片或文章从杂志上剪下做成剪报。
60.Give them lots of compliments.尽量称赞他们。
61.Catch them doing something right.尽量发现他们的闪光点。
62.Encourage win-win solutions.鼓励他们想出好方法。
63.Give them your undivided attention.一心一意关注他们。
64.Ask for their opinion.征求他们的意见和建议。
65.Have fun together.乐在一起。
66.Be curious with them.对他们好奇。
67.Introduce them to your friends and family.把他们介绍给你的朋友和家人。
68.Tell them how much you like being with them告诉他们你多么想和他们在一起。
69.Let them solve most of their own problems.尽量让他们自己解决问题。
70.Meet their friends.和他们的朋友见面。
71.Meet their parents.和他们的父母见面。
72.Let them tell you how they feel.让他们告诉你他们的想法。
73.Help them become an expert at something.帮助他们成为某方面的能手。
74.Be excited when you see them.见到他们时万分激动。
75.Tell them about yourself.给他们谈你的经历。
76.Let them act their age.让他们的行为同年龄一致。
77.Praise more; criticize less.多赞扬，少批评。
78.Be consistent.做事坚持不懈。
79.Admit when you make a mistake.勇于承认错误。
80.Enjoy your time together.一起享受快乐时光。
81.Give them a special nickname.给每人起个昵称。
82.Marvel at what they can do.为他们做的力所能及的事表现出惊奇。
83.Tell them how proud you are of them.告诉他们你以他们为荣。
84.Pamper them.宠爱他们。
85.Unwind together.一起放松。
86.Be happy.心情愉快。
87.Ask them to help you.请他们帮忙。
88.Support them.支持他们。
89.Applaud their successes.为他们的成功拍手喝彩。
90.Deal with problems and conflicts while they’re still small.防微杜渐。
91.Chaperone a dance.为他们伴舞。
92.Tell them stories in which they are the hero.讲故事时把主角换成他们。
93.Believe in them.相信他们。
94.Nurture them with good food, good words, and good fun.为他们提供营养的食品，对他们说鼓励的话语，给他们讲有趣的笑话。
95.Be flexible.随机应变。
96.Delight in their uniqueness.为他们的独一无二而高兴。
97.Let them make mistakes.容忍他们的错误。
98.Notice when they grow.关注他们的成长和发育。
99.Wave and honk when you drive by them.你乘坐或驾驶的车经过他们时，向他们招手或鸣笛问好。
100.Give them immediate feedback.当场对他们的表现进行评价。
101.Include them in conversations.允许他们加入你的交谈。（经常谈到他们？）
102.Respect them.尊重他们。
103.Join in their adventures.加入他们的冒险。
104.Visit their schools.参观他们的校园。
105.Help them learn something new.帮助他们学习新事物。
106.Be understanding when they have a difficult day.在他们烦恼时给予安慰。
107.Give them good choices.让他们有满意的选择。
108.Respect the choices they make.尊重他们的选择。
109.Be silly together.一起犯傻。
110.Hang out together.课外多和他们呆在一起。
111.Make time to be with them.挤出时间和他们呆在一起。
112.Inspire their creativity.激发他们的创造力。
113.Accept them as they are.让他们保持自己的特色和个性。
114.Become their advocate.当他们的支持者。
115.Appreciate their individuality.赏识他们的个性。
116.Talk openly with them.同他们坦白地交谈。
117.Tolerate their interruptions容忍他们的插话。
118.Trust them.信任他们。
119.Share a secret.和他们分享秘密。
120.Write a chalk message on their sidewalk.在他们的课桌旁用粉笔留言。
121.Create a safe, open environment.创设一个安全而开放的环境。
122.Be available.随叫随到。
123.Cheer their accomplishments.为他们的成功而欢呼。
124.Encourage them to help others.鼓励他们帮助别人。
125.Tackle new tasks together.一起完成新的任务。
126.Believe what they say.相信他们说的话。
127.Help them take a stand and stand with them.帮助他们形成主见并支持他们。
128.Daydream with them.和他们一起做白日梦。
129.Do what they like to do.做他们喜欢做的事。
130.Make decisions together.一起做决定。
131.Magnify their magnificence.赞美他们的神奇。
132.Build something together.一同搞修建。
133.Encourage them to think big.鼓励他们幻想。
134.Celebrate their firsts and lasts, such as the first school day.庆祝他们的第一次和最后一次，例如他们上学的第一天。
135.Go places together.一起外出。
136.Welcome their suggestions.欣然接受他们的意见。
137.Visit them when they’re sick.他们生病的时候去探望他们。
138.Tape-record a message for them.用录音给他们留言。
139.Help them learn from mistakes.帮助他们从错误中学习，吸取教训。
140.Be sincere.真诚待人。
141.Introduce them to people of excellence.让他们认识成功人士。
142.Tell them what you expect of them.告诉他们你对他们的期望。
143.Give them your phone number.把你的电话号码留给他们。
144.Introduce them to new experiences.让他们有获得新的经历。
145.Share a meal together.一起用餐。
146.Talk directly together.面对面地谈话。
147.Be spontaneous.不矫揉造作。
148.Expect their best; don’t expect perfection.期望他们尽最大努力，但不要期待完美。
149.Empower them to help and be themselves.支持他们张扬个性。
150.Love them no matter what.无条件地爱他们。